When someone you love needs help
Helping someone you love shouldn't mean carrying it alone.
You're the one keeping track of the appointments, the medications, the paperwork, and the updates the whole family waits on. Time to Care gives you structure for the decisions ahead and a community of people doing the same thing.
Bilingual community · English and Español
Practical caregiver guidance
A supportive community
Support for every stage
New: Isabel's chapter
Isabel's journey, in her own words
Before she founded Time to Care, Isabel was a daughter holding everything together. She tells that story in the anthology Oh Yes I Did!
Available wherever books are sold online.
The role you didn't apply for
Somewhere along the way, all of it became yours.
If any of this sounds like your week, you're in the right place.
The appointments, updates, and next steps keep finding their way to you.
Everyone looks to you for answers, even though no one decided you would be in charge.
You're coordinating their needs while keeping the rest of your own life moving.
You're holding the same family conversations, staying composed, even as the arrangement becomes harder to sustain.
None of that means you're failing. It means you need a structure, not one more thing to feel guilty about.
Membership
You're coordinating the appointments, the information, and the family. This community is built around that.
Time to Care is a paid membership for the person keeping a loved one's care on track. Some people call that caregiving. Whatever you call it, you don't have to do it without guidance or company, whether you're just starting or years in.
What members receive
Care Talks
Facilitated conversations led by a moderator, with others navigating the same responsibilities. Not an open chat room.
Guided programs, included
Journey to Self-Care and The Care Lab run inside the community at no extra cost.
Guidance library
Practical resources organized by stage.
Member space and boundary tools
Somewhere to ask questions between Care Talks, plus the language for hard family conversations.
Who it's for
You've become the family's default point person
You're helping a loved one navigate health issues
You coordinate appointments, information, decisions, and relatives
It feels like everything holds together only because you stay organized
You're close to burnout, or you can tell this arrangement won't hold
You know bigger care needs are coming and you want to prepare
Founding Member Offer
Pricing
Community Membership
$125 $60 /month
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FOUNDER
Only 10 founding spots · locked in for life
Billed monthly · cancel anytime
- Everything listed above, included in one plan
- Bilingual support in English and Español
Founding member rate: $60/month with code FOUNDER, limited to the first 10 members. You keep the $60 rate for as long as your membership stays active.
Time to Care is peer and educational support. It is not medical, legal, or therapeutic care.
How it works
Three steps, no call required
1
See what's included
Community Membership is one plan. Review everything it covers.
2
Create your account
Set up your profile and language preference in a few minutes.
3
Join the community
Access sessions, resources, and the member space right away.
Caregiving stages
Find your stage, then see what you get
Pick the description that sounds most like right now. Each stage has its own decisions, and membership meets you there.
Planning stage
Sounds like you if
No one needs daily help yet, but you can see it coming and you'd rather not be caught off guard.
Nothing is urgent, which is exactly why this is the easiest stage to prepare in. Documents, wishes, and family expectations are far simpler to sort out before a crisis decides them for you.
What membership gives you here
- A checklist of documents and conversations to handle early
- Language for raising the subject with a parent who says it's too soon
- Members who wish they had started here
Transition into care
Sounds like you if
A diagnosis, a fall, or a hospital discharge just made you the person in charge.
Everything changes at once: new responsibilities, new paperwork, and decisions you weren't expecting. The goal at this stage is getting organized before the next surprise arrives.
What membership gives you here
- A first 30 days checklist for medical, legal, and financial basics
- Scripts for the first family meeting about who does what
- Live sessions where you can ask what to do next this week
Sustained care
Sounds like you if
Caring for them is now your routine, and so is the fatigue.
The crisis passed and the workload stayed. This stage is about protecting your energy, distributing the load, and keeping your own life intact alongside the caregiving.
What membership gives you here
- A care team map so responsibilities stop defaulting to you
- Boundary language for requests, siblings, and the person you care for
- A rhythm of check-ins so you're not reassessing everything alone
Chronic care
Sounds like you if
You've been doing this for years, and there's no end date on the calendar.
Care that stretches across years asks something different. The focus here is endurance, grief that arrives before loss, and staying connected to your own life over the long run.
What membership gives you here
- Planning for care that changes as needs escalate
- Support for anticipatory grief and the guilt that travels with it
- Peers who are years in and can tell you what held up
Closure
Sounds like you if
Care is winding down, or it has ended, and you're still holding the paperwork and the grief.
The last stage rarely gets talked about. There are hospice and end of life decisions, an estate to settle, family dynamics that resurface, and an identity to rebuild once the role stops.
What membership gives you here
- Guidance for hospice, end of life, and executor decisions
- Space for grief that doesn't follow a schedule
- Help figuring out what your life looks like after caregiving
Free tool
Discover your boundary style
A short, free quiz that shows how you tend to handle requests, limits, and guilt as a caregiver, and what usually helps someone with your style.
3 questions · about 2 minutes · free
Meet Isabel
Founder of Time to Care / Tum Coeur
“I was raised to never talk about the uncomfortable things in life and to put myself after everyone else's needs. In college, after dad's passing, I had to change all of that. I had to talk about death, about my mom's future, and I had to ask for a LOT of favors.”
Member proof
Satisfied Clients
It’s been the most amazing project in years. Now I feel happier and liberated. Isabel is a great coach, she understands your feelings and sensibility, your needs and special moments. Her peaceful way of guiding you gives you strength and force to go until you reach your goal.
Isabel's strategies are easy to implement and have immediate results.
There's no need to damage your mental health while you take care of a loved one. Also, there's no purpose in making the last moments painful or fighting among family members. Being a caregiver to your loved one with Isabel's guide is without a doubt a blessing.
As a dedicated care planner, Isabel brings unparalleled expertise and compassion. She empowers individuals to navigate the intricate balance of caregiving and self-care, making a profound difference in her clients' lives. Isabel's journey into caregiving began with the challenges of providing care without support. This firsthand experience has shaped her approach and driven her mission to ensure no caregiver feels alone or unsupported. Her empathy and understanding are palpable in every interaction, providing comfort and reassurance to those she works with. I highly recommend Isabel to anyone seeking guidance to create harmony in caring for their loved ones while living life to the fullest and finding their purpose.
FAQ
Questions caregivers ask us
I'm not sure which stage I'm in. Does that matter?
No. Most caregivers sit between two stages, and the stage changes over time. Start with whichever description sounds closest to this month, and the guidance library and sessions cover the rest.
$125 a month feels like a lot when I'm already paying for care.
It's a real number, so here's what it buys: live group sessions, the stage-based guidance library, and the member space, for less than a single hour with most private care consultants. You can cancel anytime.
My family doesn't agree on anything. Can this help with that?
That's one of the most common reasons people join. Membership includes language and frameworks for family meetings, dividing responsibilities, and handling the sibling who is involved only in opinions.
I don't have time for one more thing.
Sessions are optional and recorded, and the library is organized so you can find one answer and leave. Membership is designed to remove decisions from your week, not add them.
Who is this membership for?
Family caregivers: adult children, spouses, partners, siblings, and anyone providing unpaid care for someone they love, at any stage.
What's included in membership?
Live group sessions, a guidance library organized by caregiving stage, and an ongoing member community space. Exact session frequency and resource list are placeholders pending confirmation.
How much does it cost?
Membership is $125/month, billed monthly. You can cancel anytime, and your membership stays active through the end of your billing period.
Is this private?
Community conversations are intended to stay within the community. Full privacy terms are a placeholder pending the published privacy policy.
Can I cancel?
Cancellation terms are a placeholder pending client confirmation and will be stated clearly before any payment is taken.
How do I access the community?
After joining, you create an account and access sessions and resources online. The platform is a placeholder pending confirmation.
Is this therapy or medical advice?
No. Time to Care offers peer and educational support. It does not replace medical, legal, or mental health care from a licensed professional.
Is everything available in Spanish?
Yes. This page and community materials are offered in English and Español. Use the language switcher in the navigation at any time.
You don't have to keep doing this alone
Join caregivers who understand the weight you're carrying, and get support built for the stage you're in.